Thought: Don't compare, live a life and be thankful

Aku melihat hidup orang lain begitu nikmat,
Ternyata ia hanya menutupi kekurangannya tanpa berkeluh kesah.
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Aku melihat hidup teman-temanku tak ada duka dan kepedihan, ternyata ia hanya pandai menutupi dengan mensyukuri.
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Aku melihat hidup saudaraku tenang tanpa ujian,
Ternyata ia begitu menikmati badai hujan dalam kehidupannya.
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Aku melihat hidup sahabatku begitu sempurna,
Ternyata ia hanya berbahagia menjadi apa adanya.
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Aku melihat hidup tetanggaku beruntung,
Ternyata ia selalu tunduk pada Allah untuk bergantung.
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Setiap hari aku belajar memahami setiap hidup orang yang aku temui..Ternyata aku yang kurang mensyukuri nikmatMu.
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Bahawa di belahan dunia lain masih ada yang belum seberuntung yang aku miliki saat ini…
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Dan satu hal yang aku ketahui, bahwa Allahu Rabbi tak pernah mengurangi ketetapanNya.Hanya aku
yang masih mengkufuri nikmat suratan Ilahi…
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Maka aku merasa tidak perlu iri hati dengan rezeki orang lain.. Mungkin aku tak tahu dimana rezekiku.Tapi rezekiku tahu dimana diriku.
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Amatlah keliru bila bertawakkal rezeki dimaknai dari hasil bekerja..Kerana bekerja itu adalah ibadah, sedang rezeki itu urusan-Nya..
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Manusia membanting tulang, demi angka simpanan gaji, yang mungkin esok akan ditinggal mati.. Mereka lupa bahwa hakikat rezeki bukan apa yang tertulis dalam angka, tapi apa yang telah dinikmatinya..
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Rezeki tak selalu terletak pada pekerjaan kita, Allah menaruh sekehendak-Nya.
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Halalnya saja dihisab..dan haramnya diadzab.Maka, aku tidak boleh merasa iri pada rezeki orang lain.. Bila aku iri pada rezeki orang, sudah seharusnya juga iri pada takdir kematiannya…. Astaghfirullah…
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#selfreminder


I found this long reminder post on Irine nadia facebook. 

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Please please don't ever lived most of your life by comparing yourself to others. Because the truth is, comparisons are always unfair. People's are different and unique. We each have our own gifts, talents and 'rizqi' that Allah already given to us.

Remember that nobody is perfect. Because nowaday, we live in a society that give perfectionist always be their number one perriority. For instance, I always read comments on instagram picture, you-know-insta-famous. There were huge comments saying like feeling insecure with their beauty, why cant they be pretty like em'. Why would you feels insecure with your own look my dear?? she's beautiful, you are beautiful, and everybody is beautiful in and out.

Remeber, don't compare, live a life and be thankful :)

Getting fits

Assalamualaikum loveliess!



It's already April means I still have 9 month to achieve one of my 2017 resolutions. It's to lose my weight and getting fits!. For me, I still have a long and challeging weight lose journey that I can never see the end.

To be honest, I realised that I never once go exercise or jogg without having a partner. That's a main reason why I decided to join tbl (read it in my previous post) which is I fully dedicated my evening that suppose-to-be-my-napping-time to go out and exercise with my partner.

I slowly put my interest to join any UMP's running event.  It wasnt an easy step for beginner of course. It's soo challenge that requires a fitness and preparation. At my first event as I remember, I can only jogg for 5 minutes to 10 minutes then semput la pulaa thehehehe . But the real feeling when you reach your finish line was soo damn good. To be honest, I feels proud of myself eventho I'm the last one who reached the end point hahahahahahaha

Here's some tips I can share for you guys, for beginner. It doesnt mean that I'm now good in running. I'm not! but believe me these tips actually work for me :P

1) Set your goals and do pre-training

Because goals give you target to finish what you do. And pre-training helps you to gain your stamina and mental and physically prepared.. nahhh even you dont have a time to do it everyday just save your 2 to3 days in a week to train. Do a lots of cardio's. Jogging for instance.

2) Run with your bestfriend/ boyfriend / girlfriend etc

hahahaha actually this is work for me. This is like moral support for me. I'm lucky because my darls always give their support for me. They shouted "come on nana you can do it" and even waited for me to finish my run.

3) Choose a suitable suits and shoes

This is depends. For every events actually they provides you with short sleeve T shirt. For me, a girl who wearing a hijab of course need to choose the right materials. For inner Tshirt, make sure to choose thick materials, and wear hijab that give you most comfort. Bawal material is the best kot :) and choose the right and comfortable running shoes okay dear. Try to be minimal so that you can run at ease.

4) If you cant run, walk faster

Yes, like I said I can't run continuosly like in 30 minutes non-stop ( how I wish) but I couldnt mybe for now. It's okay my dear, run and if you couldnt then take a huge breath (not break lol) and keep walk in faster ways. My friends taugh me how to do a right breathing. Its like you have to take a deep breath then breath out in 2 short breath. camtu laa tak pandai explain sobsob mybe I should do a short videos later.

My darls, missing Dhia

Till next time!

Thank you for reading 

dad without mom

As I write this, I'm laying here writing this on very comfort bed with my mum and pillow on the neck while watching a late movie and eating pizza's we ordered together. #relationshipgoals.  Mom and I had this unplanned mother-daughter trip to Port Dickson since I got a free hotel room voucher and the date that I choose was my mom's birthday. Dad is welcome to follow but he cant since he had an important board meeting tomorrow morning.


I remember the time years ago when we (mom and the kids) were never sleeping away from dad. When dad having a "seminar" or 3 days 1 night board meeting for instance, we used to follow dad to hotel (room is provided to dad) and we slept together in room. Imagine mom with 8 kids staying silently in sometimes-ceo-room-most-of-the-time-deluxe room hahahahahaha.


Oh back to my story. #giggles

Eventho it was just for one night but it was memoriable night for me. I spent my night with mom, watching movies together, eating late dinner, listening to her stories, giving my opinion, and vise versa.  Being the oldest, infact, I've always been the ear for my mom but now I'm staying away, far from home and sometimes life is getting more challenging now, giving me a hard time to always update life and spent time with my parents.



And the thing is.....




dad cant sleep without his wife lol

lol well dad, it's just for one night. chill okay?



Thank you for reading!